Showing posts with label identity. Show all posts
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Friday, October 25, 2013

Lesson 4 - Everyone is a Green Lantern

            No, this title is not contradicting the last lesson.  Stick with me and you’ll understand.
Everyone who has ever picked up and read a comic book has formed some sort of opinion on who the most powerful superhero is.  Usually it comes up with friends in discussions like, “So, who would win in a fight, Wolverine?  Or Batman?”
Sure, those two are from two entirely different comic universes, but still the questions get asked.
But when it comes to “who’s the most powerful” I think many people would probably say Superman.  He’s one of the most well known and he is definitely one of the most straightforward in terms of powers and power levels.  Not many heroes can out punch Superman.
However, if I may offer my own opinion… without starting a war with comic book readers with differing opinions… I think the Green Lantern is the most powerful.  Or at the very least, has the potential to be the most powerful.
Hey hey, guys… simmer down.  I said it’s just my opinion.  You don’t have to agree.
Here is why I vote for him and a little Green Lantern back ground to boot.  The Green Lantern is part of a larger group of heroes known as the Green Lantern Corps.  They are basically a large group of space police that protect the entire universe.  It is broken into 3600 sectors (3599 actually, but that’s another story), with each sector protected by at least one (or more) Green Lanterns.  
The Green Lantern’s power comes from a ring he or she… or it… wears.  The ring channels energy though it, a green energy, and is controlled by the users will.  A Green Lantern is limited only by his or her will and imagination.
   Other than that, the ring user can literally do anything.
Anything.
If she can think of it, she can do it.  If he can imagine it, he can do it.  If they have the will, they can make it happen.
Fly.  Turn invisible.  Make objects out of energy.  Teleportation.  Phasing.  Simulate super strength.  Anything.
Manipulate matter.
Anything.
Manipulate reality.
Literally anything the user can both imagine and have the willpower to do.
Of course, there is the loophole.  It’s limited by the imagination and will.  And let’s face it.  Most of us are either pretty weak willed or completely lacking in imagination.
In reality, the Green Lantern is limited by how he or she sees or understands reality.  The Green Lantern is limited by his or her “world view.”
How does he see things?  Understand things?  What does that cause him to do?  How does it cause him to think?  What strategies will he devise because of that?  How will that guide his use of the power?
Let me give you some great Green Lantern examples.
Hal Jordan.  He’s the icon.  The Green Lantern by which all other Green Lanterns are measured.  He was an Air-force fighter pilot turned test pilot.  He has no fear.  He is focused.  He is efficient.  So when he uses his ring, this is how he uses it.  He keeps it simple.  He does what is needed to get the job done.  He likes to make boxes and spheres and hammers and such.  However, he also is the one Lantern that can do some of the more amazing things.  Turn invisible.  Phase through solid objects.  Create dimensional gateways.
He finds the most efficient way to do something, then does it.  No waste, no mess, no fuss. 
Kyle Rainer.  He was an artist.  Everything he makes is a work of art.  He makes comic book characters.  Anime robots.  Mecha.  Gun-toting bikini girls.  Ninjas.  And all of them are works of art and works in progress.  He never just does something and sticks with it.  Each construct is newer, better, more imaginative, constantly being made and remade.  He’s an artist, and he creates like an artist.  Never satisfied with what he’s done.
John Stewert.  The architect.  Everything he makes is precise.  And they have substance.  He makes something from the inside out.  It isn’t just a shell or an illusion of an object.  He makes it as though it has substance… as though it’s the real thing.  You could dissect it, and see the internal workings and constructs.  
Guy Gardner.  He’s the angry guy.  Raw.  When he uses the ring it doesn’t so much project energy as it leaks energy.  With him, the energy is like water in a dam waiting to burst through.  He doesn’t attack with creativity.  He attacks with power.  As much as he can, all the time.  No finesse.  No art.  Just raw power unleashed.
Kilawog.  He was an alien scientist.  He looks sort of like a humanoid hippo on steroids.  For some reason, his ring is the only ring that makes noise.  Of course, it’s not the ring, it’s him.  There is something about him, about the way he sees things and approaches things that causes that ring to make noise when no ones else does.  Everyone else goes silently about their business.  But not Kilawog.
There are many other Green Lanterns I could have talked about, but these are the main and most recognized Green Lantern characters.
It occurred to me that the significance of a Green Lantern wasn’t his or her ring and power, but his or her world view.
That is the one thing that’s different.  They wield an equal ring with the same power, same energy and same potential.  But each user is more or less successful or seemingly powerful or effective compared to each other.
All rings are created equal.
But not all users.
And as I was thinking about this, I realized that this is exactly how people are.  We are not limited by the possibilities around us.  Especially not in the modern age of globalization and global communication.  Instead, we are limited by ourselves.  By how we see the world.
We are limited only by our world view.
We are who we are in large part because of how we see the world.  Where were we raised?  Who raised us?  With what values were we raised with?  With what experiences were we shaped?
But more importantly, are we capable of seeing past any of that so that we can understand that all of our world views are limited and incomplete and therefore are limiting us?
That doesn’t make them bad or evil.  Just limited.  
Sometimes, we go a direction because someone told us we weren’t capable of going in another.  
It might not have been true.
My wife is a nurse.  When she was in nursing school there was an instructor who told her she would never make it as a nurse.  She wouldn’t be any good and she should just quit.
My wife could have listened to that.  Instead, she didn’t.  She graduated and has gone on to consistently be one of the most recognized and competent nurses in any department she has worked.  I say this not because she is my wife.  I say this because of the commendations she has received for nursing excellence as voted by both peers and patients.  The hospitals she has worked at have received numerous letters and messages from patients saying how much they loved her or how great she was with them and how much they appreciated her skill and attitude.
Of course, I think she’s great because she’s both kind and totally smokin’ hot.
But what do I know.
In the end, my wife could have experienced none of that success if she had listened to the person who was telling her what she couldn’t do, instead of believing in herself and what she could do.
She didn’t let that instructor shape her view of herself and therefore damage her world view.
Of course, my wife’s world view IS damaged.  But only in the same way all of our world views are damaged.
We only rise as far as we think we can.  If we didn’t know any different, we would go farther.  Be more.
You know why students in Korea and China and other Asian countries are often ahead of our students here in America?  Especially in areas of languages and math?  It’s because their school system pushes them harder sooner.
We see that and think, “oh, poor kids.”  Why?  Cause we all hated school.  
Do you think their kids see it that way?  Oh, they might hate school also.  But only for the same reasons we did.  They don’t realize they are being pushed harder.  They see it as normal.  
A person will go as far as they are expected to go.  We then draw a line at that expectation and try our darndest to not go past it. 
It’s a shame, really.  Because we are capable of so much more.  Of being, so much more.

All it would take is for us to realize that we are all like Green Lanterns and that the only limit is that which we place on ourselves.

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Lesson 3 - Dio Was Not Ozzy


Well, well.  It seems I almost forgot to post today.  In fact, I think, technically, I did.  It is now tomorrow.  (i'll let you work out that math...)  But, as promised, even if late, here is my next post...

As the 1960’s became the 1970’s, the rock music scene was changing faster than supermodels at a fashion show.  The music was becoming harder and darker.  A number of bands were popping up all at the same time that were revolutionizing and impacting the direction that hard rock and heavy metal would take for decades to come.
One of the bands at the forefront of this was a young English band known as Black Sabbath.  Tony Iommi was changing the way metal was played on guitar with his single string guitar riffs, and Ozzy Osbourne was becoming a voice of metal so distinctive that it would be recognized with enthusiasm and awe by almost 40 years worth of heavy metal fans.
Of course, Ozzy’s onstage antics didn’t hurt his fame and infamy.  You try biting the head off of a bat on stage in front of thousands of people and see if you get remembered.
I bet you will.
Throughout the 70’s, Ozzy and Black Sabbath were one of the standards by which all metal was judged.
Then, as the 70’s were coming to a close, Ozzy decided it was time to go out on his own and make a name for himself.  This left a void in Black Sabbath that needed to be filled if they wanted to continue being a force in the world of heavy metal.
In came a man by the name of Ronald Padavona.  Or as the world knew him, Ronnie James Dio.  It is said he changed his stage name to “Dio” after mafia member Johnny Dio.  Prior to his stint with Black Sabbath, Dio was modestly to little known.  Most people do not know that Dio had been a force in rock-n-roll since the late 50’s.  
I for one had been oblivious to that fact.
But once he became the front man for Black Sabbath, he was immediately shoved to the front of the line.  Fronting for Sabbath was possibility one of the greatest honors in the metal world at the time.
And he did a great job.  His first album was a huge success.  The second album was also well received, even if not quite as successful.
Now, let me ask you.
How many of you can tell me off the top of your heads a single song Dio did with Black Sabbath?
Probably some of you can.  They were good.  But most people can’t.  When people think of Black Sabbath, they always think of Ozzy Osbourne.  They think of Iron man.  War Pigs.  Sabbath Bloody Sabbath.  And half a dozen other hugely successful Ozzy-era Black Sabbath songs.
In the end, it didn’t matter how good Dio was, he wasn’t Ozzy.
And as long as he tried to fill the shoes of Ozzy, it was always going to be that way.
I won’t say this is why Dio left Black Sabbath in 1982.  I have no idea why he did.  But I will say this.  The moment he stopped trying to fill Ozzy’s shoes and Ronnie James Dio decided to be Ronnie James Dio, he became one of the biggest legends in heavy metal history.
When a person thinks of Ronnie James Dio, they think of songs like Holy Diver, and Rainbow in the Dark.  Songs done by Dio when he left Sabbath and ventured out with his own band known simply as “Dio.”  
What people don’t think of are songs like Heaven and Hell, which was the title track from his first album as front man for Black Sabbath.  Even though that album was one of the best selling albums Black Sabbath had ever released until that time.
It was a success, but it’s not where his fame lies.
Dio became a success and an icon when he stopped being Ozzy, and started being Dio.
Of course, in his case, it was simply a career and business move, and the opportunity of a life time to take over for Ozzy.  To turn that down would have been insanity for someone in his position.
But as a metaphor, it’s an interesting thing.
The harder we strive to be someone else, the farther away we go from who we need to be.
And that can be dangerous.
Do you know what Super-oos are?  If you don’t, let me tell you what you missed.
Super-oos were Under-oos, except they were super-hero themed.
Wait, you don’t know what Under-oos are either?
*sigh*
Ok, they were a brand/type of under-wear.  Super-oos came with a pair of under-wear, thermal pants and long sleeve thermal shirt that were all super-hero themed.
I had a pair of Superman ones.  The pants were blue, the shirt was blue with the red and yellow “S” on the front, and the underwear were red with the yellow waist band.  However, instead of wearing the underwear like underwear, I’d put them on the OUTSIDE of the pants, just like Superman.  Then I’d tie a red blanket around my neck and run around that way.
Hmm.  I didn’t clarify.  This was when I was a little kid.  This was not last week.
You can’t prove otherwise.
So, I would run around with my Super-oos and my red blanket cape because I wanted to be Superman.  I would then proceed to jump off the stairs at our house in an attempt to fly.  Because, hey, I had a cool red cape and Super-oos, I should be able to fly.
It seems our carpet was apparently made of Kryptonite.  My parents said it was green shag carpet.  But I knew different.  I knew it was the reason why every time I would jump off the stairs I’d come down crashing at the bottom.  And I knew that our Kryptonite shag carpet was the reason why it hurt every time.
Actually, I knew that the reason I couldn’t fly was because I wasn’t actually Superman.  Not that I thought he was real.  But you know… kids…
The problem was that I wasn’t Superman.  And pretending to be Superman wasn’t going to make me fly any better or crash any softer.  Eventually, trying to be Superman was going to end in disaster.  To avoid that, it became apparent that I needed to stop trying to be Superman and start trying to be me.
Well, that’s not true.  I think there was a Spiderman phase immediately there after…
As long as I try to be like someone else, I will never reach the potential of who I can be or who I am suppose to be.  I will forever stunt my growth by exploiting the weaknesses in who I am and ignoring the strengths of who I am.  I will never explore my talents, my own joys, the things that bring me fulfillment because I will be too busy trying to be Superman, or Spiderman, or Ozzy.
I will never discover who I am.  Mostly, because I won’t be looking.  I will run around in my life with a giant hole where my identity should be and never be the true triumph of a person that I could be.  I will never develop as a person.  I will never be comfortable as a person.  I will always be looking outside for fulfillment.  And as we have already discussed, that’s a pretty dangerous endeavor.
Ultimately, I will never be whole.  I can’t try to be Superman because I am not Superman.
And neither are you.